Monday, April 16, 2018

The Forgotten Ones by Regina Weston

Mending Hearts - Women Healing Women wants to inspire you to remember 'The Forgotten Ones'. There are many women that are hurting, that are down on their luck for one reason or another. And let's not forget the many women that are sick with cancer, or another ailment and those in the hospital and nursing home.   
     Today, I want to challenge you to encourage a woman, letting them know that they are not FORGOTTEN, that there is someone that cares about them and their well being. 
     Mother's Day is coming up, I encourage you to buy a 'Thinking About You Card', or writing a few words of encouragement on a card and giving it to whomever God places on your heart to encourage. Better yet, pick up a vase and some flowers from your local, Dollar Tree, Wal-mart, or Family Dollar store and give it to a woman, you know or don't know, with a note of benevolence, a act of kindness goes along way. You will never know what that will do for someone who feels that no one cares about them.
    Will you take on the challenge, if you will, you will not regret it.  We are about Mending Hearts: I Am My Sister's Keeper...

Thursday, March 15, 2018

Turn On The Lights By Regina Weston

(Mark 12:30- 31)  "Love your neighbor as yourself."

Which simply means: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Definition of Self-love: the instinct by which one's actions are directed to the promotion of one's own welfare or well being, especially and excessive regard for one's own advantage.

It is a belief that one of the issues that is facing our women of all ages is the lack of self-love. When you love yourself then you can freely love those around you. You can liberally acknowledge love and identify unhealthy love. This allows you to make a conscious decision to remove yourself from a toxic relationship or situation. Self-love is an awareness of who you are and what you deserve and the manner in which it should be delivered.

"Self-love is a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological and spiritual growth. ... You love yourself when you can turn away from something that feels good and exciting to what you need to stay strong, centered, and moving forward in your life, instead."

That means that jealousy, envy, back biting, backstabbing and hatred has no room or space in your mind, heart and being. It's when you don't know who you are, and who's you are when conflict and self-doubt is able to take up residence in your life, mind and heart.

Man verse Self-conflict: "man against selfconflict, the struggle is internal. This is a conflict that is usually associated with an external conflict. A character must overcome his own nature or make a choice between two or more paths - good and evil; logic and emotion."

Turn on the lights so that you can learn who you are and not compare yourself with others or define yourself by the lives of others and opinions of others. 

Turn on the lights is to ignite the light bulb of thought to go off in your psyche to help you to begin the process of change in the way that you think, act and respond to life, people and situations. It is to help you to get rid of those things that has polluted your spirit, mind and body in a negative manner that has produce a certain mindset in you.

It's my hope that you can start to heal today, taking the journey towards self-love so that you can live your best life, experience all the positive and great things that this life and world has to offer you.

You can start by pressing the reset button in your mind and change your thoughts which is a daily process with positive affirmations, replacing unfavorable behaviors with more favorable ones. And begin to learn about you, what you want and desire and take baby steps towards making those dreams a reality.

I believe in you!

Surround yourself with positive, energetic people that can keep the flame burning in you.  Don't deem your light with demeaning words, actions or people in your circle. Neither with dwelling on the past or present hurts, situations/circumstances that has transpired in your life. 

You're are not that person. You don't have to be that girl or that woman. I speak healing, deliverance and blessing over you. You can be whole. You are Whole, in Jesus name. Be blessed my sister's and walk in the abundance of love and admiration wherewith Christ has set you free today.  

Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Blindfolded In The Wilderness By Regina Weston

The God that goes before you, knows the path you're going to take in this life. The message is a simple one, but for many of us, a hard one to grasp onto. Don't worry because God has your back. the bible says, in Jeremiah 29:11-13 -11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.12 Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. 13 And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.

Many of us fall in the mindset of despair when things don't work out in our favor, but have you ever considered that God has something better for you? So, you lost your job, He has a better one for you, that pays more and in a better location. So, he or she walked out of your life, have you ever thought that they weren't suppose to be in it in the first place? Everything you want may not be what God wants or has for you. And when you take on things or allow people to enter your life that aren't assigned to your journey it throws a monkey wrench  in God's divine order and plan for your life.

God wants you to have the very best, therefore why are you willing to settle for mediocre, you are the kings child and deserve to eat from the kings table. Regardless, to the choices that you have made in your life, good or bad, the thoughts God has towards you and about you has never changed. He doesn't throw people to the waste side like garbage as man does. His love for you is unconditional. It doesn't matter where you are at in life, as long as you have breathe in your body, you can change your life and turn things around for the better. Becoming the person you where created to be and have what is for you, the best of everything. Don't sell yourself short because of feelings of unworthiness. You deserve to be loved and respected, treated well, to eat the finest of meals, to wear the best garments, and to experience love from individuals that can love you in the right manner and to travel to broaden your horizon.

Whatever the situation, person, place or thing, when things don't go as you think that they should just know that the God that goes before you has mapped out a plan for your life and is not going to leave you broke down and doomed to failure, He always has a ram in the bush. He shows up on time and supplies what you need, every time. If He takes care of the ravens that neither toss or labor for shelter or food why wouldn't He look after you and supply your needs according to His riches in glory. It's time to trust the God that is all knowing. He is the God that goes before you and prepares, a plate for you, open doors that you may or may not be qualified to walk through. Your steps are order one day at time. From this day forward when something transpires in your life that makes you feel blue, turn it around and say that it wasn't meant for me, God has better because He has my back. He is guiding me through this wilderness and I'm going to trust Him anyway despite of the way things look. I'm blindfolded for a reason, I can't see my future but God does, which is why I will learn to trust Him, each and every day as I walk in this wilderness called life.  

Monday, January 15, 2018

        Mending Hearts - Women Healing Women                                 Title: Emotional Health    

Let me start by wishing you a Happy New Year. I hope this year starts off on the right foot and you can begin the process to correct anything in your life that is not where it is suppose to be.
          This year I encourage you to let go of the Broken Bird Syndrome. The only one that you can fix is yourself, and only with the help of the Lord can this be accomplished.
          Many of us have people in our lives that we have been trying to help to the degree that you have become emotionally drained in doing so. It's time to separate yourself from individuals that do not promote your emotional stability. When I was a little girl my father had a saying, "You Pay The Cost To Be The Boss" and this is so true, people have to learn from their own mistakes. It is not your job to fix anyone. It's your job to advise someone that is about to fall off a cliff that there is danger up ahead. Also, to educate on how to live a better life or do things in a correct manner. However, experience has taught me that if it's not in the person mind and heart to do what's right, you are wasting precious time and energy.  
          It is said that 'A Mind Is A Terrible Thing To Waste ' which is why I encourage you to protect your mind. Being on overload with things that do not promote healthy living in all facets of life is unproductive. In 2018, live and let live. You matter, and your life matters as well, start putting you first, protect your emotional health. Life is too short and you don't want to look around one day and regret that you exhausted your whole existence trying to fix other people lives when you could have been living your own and enjoying doing so. Take control of your Emotional Health today, you owe it to yourself.                                                  

Monday, November 27, 2017

You're A Conqueror

Just a few words to encourage you: This year may have been a trying one for a lot of you. You may have lost someone dear to your heart. It could've been your job, home, or failing in your health but through it all I want to let you know that you're still a conqueror. "Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning."-Psalm 30:5

God has not forgotten about you. The cloud has to move at some point and the sun will again. Remember that in all things that we still have to give God the honor, the Glory and thanks for the battles that He has given us victory over. The one's He fights on our behalf that we have no clue about. The danger seen and unseen that He protects us from. How He wakes us up in the morning in our right mind, providing food, shelter, clothing, fair health and strength.

Look at life through a new lens, knowing that you're a conqueror and there will be a victory report, just believe in it despite of what your situation looks like. God loves you and will never forsaken you. He gave His life for you. There is no greater love than this.

And if life has been great for you that is wonderful, just remember someone else that is in need and pay it forward. Remember that a hug or a warm hello goes a long way. You never know what may bring a smile to a person face or a glimmer of hope into the life of somebody. Buy someone less fortunate than you, a meal, an article of clothing; it is better to give than to receive anyway. You will become a better person because of it and encourage someone else in the process making this world a better place to live in.

Love you all, Regina Weston

The Forgotten Ones by Regina Weston

Mending Hearts - Women Healing Women wants to inspire you to remember 'The Forgotten Ones'. There are many women that are hurt...